SELF RESPECT OR EGO-What I Chose to become

They often said I am Egoistic, a proud girl because I use to deny what I found wrong. It’s not like that I am not ready to adapt the change but I CHOSE TO BE THE CHANGE. I can fit in societal parameters but I refused. What matters to me is my life, my decisions, and my priorities. Constantly I came across this situation in my life and surrendered but on one fine day I found out NOONE BOTHERS IF YOU ARE OF NO USE TO THEM. Only a few people are heartfelt and rest changes with the pace of life.

I WANTED TO BE SOMEONE AND FOR THAT I NEED TO STRUGGLE AND EXPLORE WHAT I AM.

STRUGGLE IS MINE, NO ONE CAN COME ACROSS….

I AM WHOLELY AND SOLELY RESPONSIBLE FOR THAT……… NO ONE ELSE

I want to taste the sweetness of success. It’s always easy to quit and go for the other options but a bit hard to put your energies for your aim in life. There can be a number of distractions but they don’t have any impact on you until you allow them. See your aspiration as your achievement which is overdue.

The common mistake people often make is they don’t believe their instinct but what others think of them. Some may say you proud, some will not, but is this actually what matters?? Not at all so focus and work and shape their lives in their desired manner.

BELIEVE ME, YOU CAN WHEN YOU STOP BOTHERING AND CHANNELISE YOU ALL FORCE TO MAKE YOU WHAT YOU KNOW ABOUT YOU.

Many people are not aware of that what will happen to them in the long run if they take their own decisions influenced by others. Follow your instincts and move on your own path. If you don’t have the goal then create one as people without ambition can never do wonders. Respect your dreams, aspirations, potentials, and everything which almighty has given to you. Live your life on your conditions only.

IT’S NOT ABOUT EGO BUT ABOUT SELF RESPECT. IF YOU DON’T RESPECT YOURSELF, NO OTHER WILL EVER…

Shailja

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