BEING FEMINIST

I am not a Feminist if I raise voice against what is going wrong in the society. Yes, I do favor humanity not the gender sole. We have some contradictions in our thought process which make us more aggressive. I do agree it's not about being a girl only. When a man slaps a girl, then he is cruel and if a girl slaps him, then he had lost his manliness. Sorry, it's not right as we ofter distinguish the roles on the measure of aggression and possession only.

If i raise voice against rape, discrimination or other perspectives, it doesn't mean I am feminist, it means I am a soul who feels what is right or wrong, I have a vision. Try to evaluate the situation not on the grounds of gender alone, but on the circumstances and most importantly intensions. Sometimes a girl or i must say a female is responsible too.

Very often, i found that these days we are living in nuclear families, where we don't want our in-laws to live with their son, but simultaneously we groom our son and daughter in such a way that we mut get a support in our later age. We need privacy, we need independence but not at the cost of true moral values. What you sow is what you reap, if you will do good, certainly one day good will come to you in miraculous ways. So admire what you have today and also try to beautify with your positive vibes.

Being feminist is not being a female but to be the power to bring the revolution. It's not about to fight for equality but to live life on your own terms. Be a feminist not to show your weakness but to bring the strengh out of it. Be a lit to light the thoughts, not to be the victim.

Being feminist is not about to raise voice to be a gender distinguished individual but to be a soul, which cares, nourishes and love selflessly but at the same time raise head with pride and dignity refusing the norms that prooves us asthenic and down-and-out. Be a voice of justice, not of mere sympathy.

Being feminist depicts the holding the whole universe in to you, not to beg for the place even in your house. If you are facing criticism, you are responsible for that, as you prooved yourself to be the delicate and flexible one. 

Don't be a fatal but the authority to rule your world and have a hand of help neither for females nor males but for the sake of human kind. I am not a feminist but a individual who shows what feels. Feel free to speak and live. Don't beg but live.

Shailja