INTERNATIONAL GIRL CHILD DAY

I revere the depth of the women who can hide all the scars and make everyone smile. It’s not only about she is always discriminated at every point of time but she is also the reason of a million of smiles. She fabricates lives and also gives a better life. They are esoteric.

TAKE THE STEERING OF YOUR LIFE IN YOUR HANDS AND DRIVE IN YOUR UNIQUE WAY.

Greeting on INTERNATIONAL GIRL CHILD DAY

It’s not about to stop killing the girl in the womb but to kill her dignity, her speech, her ambitions to fulfil the desire of those hardly does the same for their daughters. Today I am not going to exemplify, what happens or not but to ask a basic thing “BEING GIRL IS A BLESSING TO PARENTS BUT THE SIN TO HER LIFE.” Not every time this happens, but most of the times it does.

Recently in news, I heard something pathetic that 1-year-old, 4-year-old girls raped by the uncle, by father, brother. Not because she was wearing something shameful or she was seducing them, rather they did for their lust. WHEN WE USE TO TALK ABOUT SUCH ISSUES, WE NEED TO THINK A NUMBER OF TIMES, JUST TO CATCH UP AND MATCH UP THE PSYCHOLOGY OF STANDING PERSON. Why?  Many a time people are talking just to make fun of such things.

The worst part of our mentality is A WOMAN TAUGHT HER DAUGHTER TO BE A WEAKER PART OF SOCIETY. TO BE QUITE, SOPHISTICATED IN HER IDEOLOGIES AND TO OBEY WHATEVER HER MOTHER FACED. It’s quite funny to me “WHEN A GIRL ASKS FOR SUCH QUESTIONS, NOT ONLY THE SOCIETY BUT HER PARENTS TOO THINK THAT SHE IS NOT ON THE RIGHT TRACKS. SHE IS BECOMING AGGRESSIVE.” Let her take decisions and understand by her. MAKE HER INDEPENDENT, NOT ALWAYS DEPENDENT.

The major negative role played in such issues is not by the man, but by the woman, those blindly follow what firstly her parents, then her husband and in-laws, and thereafter her children. I AM NOT SAYING DON’T RESPECT OR OBEY THEM, DON’T OBEY BLINDLY EVERY TIME. Sometimes it’s necessary to make compromises but not at the cost of self-dignity every time. Make compromises, have patience, these miraculous qualities are possessed by the woman only. It’s the responsibility of every mother and father to teach her daughter how to make decisions wisely, not emotionally, to have dreams, to have recognition, to have the life.

IF YOU ARE GIRL, YOU MUST BE A BLESSING TO YOURSELF FIRST, THAN OTHERS. What I wrote is not on some aggressive note but many a time, I sympathized many a girl can't live their dreams in spite of their capabilities. They had potential to rule the world, but they can’t make it. GIVE RESPECT TO THE DIGNITY OF THE GIRL IF YOU ACTUALLY GAVE THE RIGHT TO HER TO ENTER ON THIS DIVINE LAND. She will be proving to be the extraordinary daughter, wife, mother if she is happy from within.

A plant grows and becomes a tree that gives life to other beings, only if the plant gets adequate soil, sunlight, and other basics. Otherwise, the plant dies and shed its leaves. Same is the case with her, IF YOU NOURISH HER IN ADEQUATE MANNER ONLY THAN SHE WILL FULFILL YOU ASPIRATIONS WITH ALL HER HEART. What a girl seeks is respect and love only. If she gets, other things don't matter much. WON'T BE A VICTIM, BE A TRENDSETTER.

Shailja