THE BUDDY

The lectures not bound by the syllabus, but the lessons of life, by a friendly teacher are what every student admires the most. Her amicable nature and quick reply to every situation depict the experience of her personal and professional life. Only a few teachers open their heart to their pupils to make them wise and rational in life. The ultimate goal of teaching is to teach them to be enlightened and live for inner self to avoid materialistic outrages and heartbreaks by circumstances.


Classroom is still the dreams of many children; those who deserve this treasure have fun and knowledge. Not every lecturer is teacher who taught us what makes us wise. Where the pupil gets that warmth, they often ask their personal doubts from that heartfelt teacher.


“MAA’M WHO OUR BEST FRIEND IS? HOW CAN WE IDENTIFY THEM?” A random question asked by a student.


“NO ONE CAN, EXCEPT YOU. BUT WE CAN DEBATE OVER THIS BECAUSE MANY OF YOU NOT WILL AGREE ON THIS.” She replied, after watching the faces of her students.


After some confabulation, the teacher questioned one by one: “WHO IS YOU BEST BUDDY? SOME SAID NAME, SOME SPOKE OUT FOR THEIR PARENTS AND SIBLINGS AND ALSO SHARED THEIR EXPERIENCES. NOT ONLY THIS SOME OF THEM WERE HIGHLY DISAPPOINTED AS THEY DON’T HAVE BEST FRIENDS.”


“THE TERM BEST FRIEND IS REALITY BUT BEST FRIEND FOR ENTIRE LIFE WITH SOME OTHER PERSON THAT YOU ARE PURELY SLANG. YES, PRESENCE OF SOME PEOPLE GIVES US THE WARMTH OF LOVE, CARE OF FRIEND. ONLY UP TO THE POINT DESTINED EITHER BY LIFE OR BY THEM. HAVE YOU EVER EXPERIENCED THAT EVEN YOU PARENTS FAILS TO UNDERSTAND YOU EVEN IF THEY BROUGHT UP YOU FOR YOUR ENTIRE LIFE,  AT SOME POINT OF TIME”, She answered in a very polite way.


Almost everyone agreed not because their parents, friends, and siblings don’t love or understand them, but because usually in life priority matters for everyone. When we were the kid we demanded all luxuries, comforts of life, and then left our parents and then left everything for some friends. Then coming to siblings we made many sacrifices but not every time we support them. In spite of the fact we have blood relations. Now coming to friends, in the journey of life we keep on changing them.


TO CONCLUDE I MUST SAY OUR WHOLE AND SOLE WE ARE THE BEST FRIEND OF SELF. WE MUST WORK ON OURSELVES FIRST. NOT EVERY TIME YOU WILL HAVE SOMEONE TO GUIDE YOU. YOU HAVE TO TAKE CARE. RESPECT YOUR PARENTS AND ABIDE THEM TOO, HELP YOU FRIENDS, BE RESPONSIBLE TOWARDS YOUR SIBLINGS. BUT AT THE SAME TIME BE MATURE ENOUGH TO TAKE YOUR DECISIONS AS YOU HAVE TO LEAD YOUR ROLE ONLY. BE GOOD TO EVERYONE, BUT AT SAME TIME WISE TOO.

Shailja

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