YES, I AM CHUBBY

" You are such a chubby girl now. I am shocked to see you. It's truly strange to me that you were so slim, a few years back. Everyone use to admire your Beauty." He said. She smiled and replied, "I am happy with this. I don't know I am beautiful right now or not, but only thing I know I am contented how I look. I am more beautiful in my sight as I learned to admire myself."

This is the probable answer everyone should get who admire your outer self not the inner one. May be due to medication, stress, depression, accident, or such circumstances the person is getting chubby. Try to be satisfied how you look. Some are not happy as they are too skinny, some are not with their obesity, some with their facial features or you may say in this entire world only a few are satisfied with how they look.

"Yes, I am chubby but soon I will be alright. I am on my medication. Actually it was also the medication that ruined my beauty. That made me fat, rather fluffy. I started dieting, I worked out but there was no genuine impact on my body. I was putting my weight and one doctor made the wrong medical report and gave me the wrong medicines. But now I realised you don't need medicine evertime but the happiness."

The problem now a days is that you need not to tell what you are going through or I must say you need not to justify everyone rather tell the truth and move on. One of the major reason why we are not contented with ourselves that we think what others want to hear, for that we use our energies in spite of using them for yourself.

May be you don't like how you appear but believe me YOU ARE PERFECT IN YOUR OWN WAY. NEVER BOTHER WHAT COMPLIMENTS YOU GET. IF YOU HAVE HEART OF GOLD YOU WILL GET THE REAL APPRECIATION ONE DAY. Many a times I saw Acid Attack Victims and I found them more beautiful than me as they know and admire their beauty. We must look at those qualities which make us distinctive rather than to glorify what we already have. LEARN TO APPRECIATE YOURSELF NOT ON THE GROUNDS OF OUTER SHADOW YOU CARRY BUT WHAT YOU POSSESS WITHIN.

Of course, I too found myself not beautiful as compared to many but I am trying not only on my outer side but the both. If you are skinny then, improve your stamina. If you are chubby, try to reduce but at the same time work on your potentials. If you have ANY COMPLAINT WITH YOURSELF, ONLY YOU CAN VANISH, NO ONE ELSE. To be satisfied means try to enhance beauty not instantly but persistently. Soon you will get the desired results. BE CONTENTED WITH YOURSELF. 

Shailja