Those 4 Person

Ek to who 4 log nahi milte, 

Jo sab dekhte hai, sunte hai bas samjhte nahi….

I never found those 4 people,

Who see, hear everything but never understands….

We often heard these words “4 log dekhenge to kya kahenge?” We also wondered who were they. In the journey of getting old rather than wise one, we lost many of our dreams and compromised for those unseen, unheard people who are watching, hearing every of our activity. In our childhood we found them as our neighborhood, in our adolescence and youth we added relatives too, and then the society as a whole. And one of the pleasing act was to please everyone. In our later age, we wondered not actually everyone deserved this; we spoiled our true worth just to be the perfect one, which was impossible. 

Ohh really!!! We all know this then what’s new in this blog? Nothing new I am gonna write today, rather just wanted to disclose those 4 persons of your life, those are truly concerned about you for your entire lives. No it’s not your friends, siblings, relatives, neighbors, or any other dear ones but those works as an umbrella in the storms of your lives. 

Mother, the first guru who teaches who to turn toddler language into real one, nourishes you with all love and care. This is the cause why she scolds you to protect you from the dusks of life. Actually she knows that you know she is magnanimous, she will love you unconditionally in spite of your flows and most of the times will be ignored. So to make you grow, she adds these 4 person just to teach you the ground reality of this society and with fortune becomes the one unfortunate person of “woh 4 log.”

Father, the Protection Wall, we always knows he is a bit harsh person with the soft heart of your life with all the love in his all of his veins filled with responsibilities. He scolds and teaches how to be a person. He never shows what he feels and with silence bears all. You can’t understand him until you have ever shared his 1% part of his responsibility. Many a time he is blamed, but he is the one who always knows what you need and what is the perfect time to get it to you. His silence with aggression on his face to make you a bit mature to take you an independent person makes him “woh 4 log”.

You, actually the self created in order to please others. This side of yours is simply dependent what the society will think, my friends will make fun of my thoughts. What consequences I will face if I go for my passion. What if, I wear the clothes of my choice? What makes me and others comfortable about being me?  In this race of being the entirely the other fake side of you, you become one of “who 4 log”.

The specific 4th person of “who 4 log” is yourself, or I must say “your+self” I mean the unexplored and untouched aspect of you. Who knows everything about you, your potentials, your flows, your place and space, which you ever get in your lives? In 90%+ cases this person remains untouched as he was not busy to build empire but to please others.

Actually our life must revolve around these 4 people. We must make our parents proud, but by giving importance to ourselves as if we are not aware of ourselves then no other will ever respect and support. Take your stand. Stay Raw, Stay You.