Random Thoughts

Is HI-TECH si jingdi me, Sab kuch hi FAST SPEED hogya hai, Mano jaise jruri hai jo sab LIFE me, Uska OPTION galti se DELETE hogya hai... Jindgi badhte badhte IMPORTANT MESSAGE si hogyi hai, Man bhi nahi hai or bhejna bhi jruri hai, Khi pe LUXURIES OR DREAMS ka bhojh, Khi kuch ajeeb si PERSONAL majburi hai, Sab kuch MANAGE krte krte,  ROBOT sa sara DATA MIND me FEED hogya hai.... Is HI-TECH si jingdi me, Sab kuch hi FAST SPEED hogya hai, Mano jaise jruri hai jo sab LIFE me, Uska OPTION galti se DELETE hogya hai... Rishto ki jagah ab dil ne nhi MONEY ne bna li hai, Itni SIMPLE si PROBLEMS humne DEPRESSION me FUNNY si bnali hai, Ab BREAK leni bhi ho to ek WORLD WAR sa lgta hai, Waise adhera hi andhera hai BUT SHOW OFF ab SUNNY si bnali hai, Pehle to logo ke aksar do hi chehre hote the, MAKEUP ki is duniya me chehro ka ye khel HIGHLIGHT hogya hai.... Is HI-TECH si jingdi me, Sab kuch hi FAST SPEED hogya hai, Mano jaise jru...

I am not a Feminist if I raise voice against what is going wrong in the society. Yes, I do favor humanity not the gender sole. We have some contradictions in our thought process which make us more aggressive. I do agree it's not about being a girl only. When a man slaps a girl, then he is cruel and if a girl slaps him, then he had lost his manliness. Sorry, it's not right as we ofter distinguish the roles on the measure of aggression and possession only. If i raise voice against rape, discrimination or other perspectives, it doesn't mean I am feminist, it means I am a soul who feels what is right or wrong, I have a vision . Try to evaluate the situation not on the grounds of gender alone, but on the circumstances and most importantly intensions. Sometimes a girl or i must say a female is responsible too. Very often, i found that these days we are living in nuclear families, where we don't want our in-laws to live with their son, but simultaneously we groom...

Yesterday, I went to the market and suddenly came across with my school friend. We were very close in those times as the journey of home to school and school to home was covered by a single auto- rickshaw, we shared the lunch with other class mates, we had a lot of class and out of the class memories. After metric, we chose different streams or I must say different lives to pursue.  We met and decided to go for the lunch. While our lunch, we mesmerized every second of it, as we re-lived those moments. Also we realized that how much we have changed . It’s true that meeting your old friend sometime make you realize what you were and what you actually are. You are getting old and child within you is dying every bit of the moment. I realized A NEW ME IN MYSELF by lifting the all odds added by the society, who knew everything about me. WE ALL HAVE SOME BEST FRIENDS, GOOD FRIENDS, SO CALLED BEST BUDDIES AT A POINT OF TIME WITH WHOM WE HAD CLASS AS WELL AS BUNKS, CELEBRATIONS...

मर्यादा कुछ कुछ थोडा, ओर कुछ कुछ ज्यादा।।। बड़ो से ज़ुबान न लड़ाना, अपने हुनर को दुनिया को ना दिखाना, लोग बुरा जानेगे तुमको, अपनी ख्वाहिशों को दिल में ही जलाना।।। मर्यादा कुछ कुछ थोडा, ओर कुछ कुछ ज्यादा।।। जब शादी होगी तब जी लेना, कुछ वक़्त और घूंठ सबर का पी लेना, यही दुनिया की रिवायत है, अब तुम्हे भी इसे है निभाना।।। मर्यादा कुछ कुछ थोडा, ओर कुछ कुछ ज्यादा।।। लड़के हो तो रोना नहीं, सपने लिए लड़कियों से तुम सोना नहीं, तुम्हारे लिए सब दरवाज़े खुले है, तू मर्द हो मर्दानगी औरत पर दिखाना।।। मर्यादा कुछ कुछ थोडा, ओर कुछ कुछ ज्यादा।।। आदमी है तो नौकरी देख, दुनियेदारी में घुठने टेक, सुना नहीं मुकमल् जहांन नहीं मिलता, तू भी हथेली जलते सपनों से सेक।।। मर्यादा कुछ कुछ थोडा, ओर कुछ कुछ ज्यादा।।। तू औरत है तो घर की लाज है, घर की इज़्ज़त तेरी मोहताज़ है, कुछ भी हो गलती तेरी होगी, कल भी ओर यही तेरा आज है।।। मर्यादा कुछ कुछ थोडा, ओर कुछ कुछ ज्यादा।।। मर्यादा की गिरोंहे सी बंधी है, सब में मर्यादा यूँ तो बंटी है, पर फर क्यों दुनिया खूंखार है जानवर से भी, किसकी न...

" You are such a chubby girl now. I am shocked to see you. It's truly strange to me that you were so slim, a few years back. Everyone use to admire your Beauty." He said. She smiled and replied, "I am happy with this. I don't know I am beautiful right now or not, but only thing I know I am contented how I look. I am more beautiful in my sight as I learned to admire myself." This is the probable answer everyone should get who admire your outer self not the inner one. May be due to medication, stress, depression, accident, or such circumstances the person is getting chubby. Try to be satisfied how you look. Some are not happy as they are too skinny, some are not with their obesity, some with their facial features or you may say in this entire world only a few are satisfied with how they look. "Yes, I am chubby but soon I will be alright. I am on my medication. Actually it was also the medication that ruined my beauty. That made me fat, ra...

"Isn't it strange, our thoughts, our liking, our food, everything is alike still we are here to sacrifice everything just to save the nation." Asked the soldier. "Brother actually the problem is not in our cultures but in the minds of those have power to dominate the minds of billions of persons. We both sacrificed our family lives, our comforts and when we need holidays we need to wait for so long. But the irony is we both love our nation and pray our motherland." "Definitely brother!!! I love my motherland and owe my life, my families happiness and everything to it. I feel the same for you." Interrupting the first soldier offers biryani along with some sweets to the other. "Thank you!! But I am vegetarian. But for the sake of our Brotherhood and love I will take one piece of Gulabjamun. I love it." He took the piece of gulabjamun. "Brother it's too tasty. Can i have one more piece? From where you get these sweets?...

"Son, if you ate chips, then throw the empty packet in the bin." Said the mother. The son stood and threw the empty packet in the bin. Mother instruced the son that if he put the garbage in the bin then the house will look clean and we all feel positive and also his small efforts will his mother in the routine matters as well. She imparts some good moral values in him so he will have a good family life.  After a few days, the family planned a picnic on weekends with their friends. While on their way everyone was enjoying the beats of the music in the car along with some snacks. The kid ate chips and asked his mother "Mummy there is no bin, where should I throw this empty packet." Then the mother took the packet and threw it out of the running car. Suddenly the kid asked mother, "Don't you think this is not good." Mother asked about what he was talking about? The son replied, "Mummy if we keep our house clean, why not our outdoors and city...

Have you ever visited a church or a temple, or while praying you light up a candle or oil lamp . I guess most of us has done this either on some point of time or on a daily basis. But how many times we ignite our inner light. I guess most of times blaming others and society, we ruined our deeds. If you can't do something for good then at least don't do bad, intentionally.  It's better to accept what is happening around you is better as you get experience and strength for the coming times. Not every time plans will work, not everytime people will admire your work, not everytime you will be happy.  But one thing is definite that if you are getting something from life, good or bad then definitely you are growing.  You need not to bother what will others think, what matters the most is what you have experienced which may change your thought process. Most of the times, we just don't open up our hearts just to please others while they knew the truth as well...

Few years back, I went to Haridwar with my parents. I was in my teenage, a age of unsaid desires and over ambitious dreams. We plan things everyday and often varies the next very day. Same was running in my life till we went for an outing in the evening. We were happy as the outing nears the shores of Holy Ganga was truely fascinating and admiring.  There was a holy saint sitting near the shores of the Holy Ganga, who indeed was looking poor but the enlightened glow on his face gave peace to us. So my father gave me Rs. 10 so that i will give it to him. He refused to take. So my dad gave me the Currency note of Rs. 50 though we thought he needs more money, I went again to him but he refused and said: I AM VERY MUCH SATISFIED WITH MY LIFE, GOD HAS ALREADY GIVEN ME IN ABUNDANCE. I HAVE ONE PEICE OF CLOTH TO WEAR AND REST WHAT I NEED IS FOOD THAT IS PROVIDED BY THE GODDESS GANGA. WHEREVER I MOVE IS MY SHELTER. HERE I SIT FOR MY PEACE ONLY IN THE LAPS OF HOLY GANGA, N...

When we were kids, often my brother asked my mother, ” IS EVERY FETIVAL IS FOR GIRLS, EVERYTIME WE NEED TO GIVE HER MONEY AND PROMISE TO PROTECT HER.” This question is frequently asked by everyone who enjoys the warmth of these festivals. These not only gives depth to our relations but also a promise to protect every time, when we need our brother. But it is not every time, it happens. No, I need my brother for the bond we share, not as a bodyguard, but my support.  “BHAIYA, THIS THE THREAD OF PROMISE YOU NEED TO PROTECT EVERYTIME.”, While tying thread she questioned to her brother with a pleasing eyes. “YES, I WILL DO ONLY ON ONE CONDITION YOU WILL GIVE HALF SHARE IN THIS MONEY.” He teased sister. Everyone over there laughed.  After some years he went abroad, and one fine day while video call he noticed some scars on his sister’s face. And he asked if what happened. “ NOTHING MUCH BHAIYA, MET WITH AN ACCIDENT YESTERDAY, SO MAY BE….. HAVE YOU GOT RAKHI, PLEAS...

When we were kids we were taught ❤WORK IS WORSHIP❤ but as the time changed we were told to forget the values and morals as they are least applicable in this DOUBLE STANDARD WORLD. But recently in an MNC I found one thing very interesting that the employees of the organisation were talking to the sweeper of the organisation in very respectful and graceful manner. This thing touched my heart and I minutely observed that the success of the organisation is highly influenced by the work culture of love, respect and concern for others. Success of a person doesn't lie in his wealth or designation rather in his peace of mind, how he behave  with others. Today there is no story to proove that MORALS TAUGHT WHEN WE WERE KIDS WERE RIGHT TO HAVE OUR SATISFACTION IN OUR LIFESTYLE. BUT IT IS WHEN WE STARTED MOULDING ALL THESE AS PER CONVINIENCE MADE US MORE FRUSTRATED, AND ARROGANT.  That was the time, when everyone use to admire the work and hardly bothers what other think...

अब होगा क्या दीवाली पर, गोलमाल होगा सब गोलमाल होगा। पटाखों का बवाल होगा, मज़हब का सवाल होगा, छोटी छोटी बातों को लेकर रिश्तों का सवाल होगा।। अब होगा क्या दीवाली पर, गोलमाल होगा सब गोलमाल होगा। अयोध्या की बातें होंगी, मर्यादा की यादें होंगी, लक्ष्मी पूजन भूल कर, इज़्ज़त की लाशें होंगी।। अब होगा क्या दीवाली पर, गोलमाल होगा सब गोलमाल होगा। अपनी बहु बेटी को सम्भालेंगे, दूसरों पर गलत नजर डालेंगे, दूसरों की इज्जत लूट कर, अपने घर की इज़्ज़त भालेंगे।। अब होगा क्या दीवाली पर, गोलमाल होगा सब गोलमाल होगा। जुआ, दारू सब आम होगा, कमरो में चुप आराम होगा, ढिंढोरा पिट अपने संस्कारों का, घर में सब नीलाम होगा।। अब होगा क्या दीवाली पर, गोलमाल होगा सब गोलमाल होगा। माता लक्ष्मी जी का पूजा पाठ होगा, घर की लक्ष्मी पर गुस्सा होगा, घर की बाहर की सफाई को लेकर, हर शख्स रूसा होगा।। अब होगा क्या दीवाली पर, गोलमाल होगा सब गोलमाल होगा। रिश्तों में बनावट होगी, रौशनी की सजावट होगी, दुनिया को दिखाने को, हर चीज़ में दिखावट होगी।। अब होगा क्या दीवाली पर, गोलमाल होगा सब ...

Some years back, while exchanging gifts I visited my old teacher. I was really glad to meet her. When I visited, I came to know one of his sons is in the Indian Army. We had some genuine talks over a cup of tea. I would like to share some glimpses of that: “Ma'am, how do you feel when on this very bright occasion, one of your sons is on the borders? Do you ever called him to come?” I questioned as I was curious what a family feels. She replied, ” Yes, everyone wants to see his son celebrating with the family. But I never called him, soon after he joined the Army, as I knew. He won’t come.” “What about his family, son (Kushal) and daughter (Piya) and wife. Don’t you think it feels good.” I asked hesitantly. She called his wife to reply, ”Namastey Didi, I want this to happen on every festival and occasion, but I know his primary duty is to serve the nation as we don’t want that fireworks will turn to the blast, which will destroy...

In a Jewelers showroom full of Gold, Diamonds, Silver and other precious stones and ornaments, there was a lot crowd to buy Gold Coins, Silver Idols of Goddess Laxmi and ornaments. Various Schemes were fascinating the people over there. A Mercedes came over there; a rich classy family came there to buy some gold coins as the gift and a big fancy Idol of Goddess Laxmi.  A sweet baby girl of age 2 years asked her mother, “ WHO IS GODDESS LAXMI? WHERE DOES SHE LIVE?” contradicting her brother of 5 years asked, “WHY WE BOW OUR HEAD IN FRONT OF HER, DESPITE IT IS JUST AN IDOL?” The couple smiled seeing each other, and father replied, “ WE OWE A BIG HOUSE, CAR AND ALL COMFORTS ONLY BECAUSE OF GODDESS LAXMI ONLY. SHE IS THE GODDESS OF WEALTH AND PROSPERITY, WHICH GIVES US HAPPINESS. WHAT WE ARE TODAY IS ONLY BECAUSE OF GODDESS LAXMI. SHE LIVES IN EVERY SOUL OF THE WOMEN. SHE IS INTO EVERY BEING. DON’T EVER HURT ANY FEMALE. RESPECT HER.” “PAPA, IS GODDESS LAXMI IN ...